What if your worst emotional triggers were actually the key to healing?

In just 20 minutes or less, you can transform drama, anxiety, and emotional chaos into calm confidence — using a practical system refined over three decades of recovery work.

The method is call processing triggers and has been the most effective way I've discovered for removing self-destructive anxiety and victim behavior.

So, if you're tired of walking on eggshells, managing everyone else's emotions, saying those things you know you shouldn't say, or replaying the same painful relationship patterns…

...this may be the most important page you read all year.

You're not alone. And it's not your fault.

For 30 years, I've been helping people just like you transform their relationship with trauma.

Most of us are unknowingly trapped on The Drama Triangle — a magnetic loop of Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor roles that keeps their relationships in turmoil.

But here's the good news…

Your triggers aren't random emotional landmines.

They're precise healing guides pointing directly to the unresolved wounds keeping you stuck.

I created the Safe In Your Own Skin Course for people who are ready to stop exhausting themselves trying to control external circumstances and...

Start building genuine safety from within by processing emotional triggers for good.

This course isn't for everyone.

It's specifically designed for people who are serious about breaking free from drama and conflict once and for all.

Let me tell you why this work is so personal to me.

By age 26, I was a broken person. On the outside, I looked fine – even successful.

But inside, I was crippled by childhood trauma. After multiple suicide attempts and countless dramas, I surrendered to recovery. That was 1994.

For years, I tried everything – cognitive behavioral therapy, 12-step programs, EMDR, therapy.

I was making progress, but something was still missing.

Then in 2004, I hit another rock bottom in my relationships.

I had to admit that I was powerless over drama and conflict-oriented behavior.

That's when I founded Violence Anonymous, a 12-step program for people recovering from an addiction to violent thinking and behaving.

Through, daily Trigger Processing, working the 12 Steps (27 times over 30 years in multiple programs), and developing the framework I'm about to share with you, I transformed myself into the person I always knew I could be...

A person no longer a victim of drama. I'm free to be myself.

These tools have allowed me to build my dream business, develop deep and fulfilling relationships with my family and loved ones, and find an inner peace nobody can take from me.

Since learning the principles and techniques in the Sustainable Safety Solution, I've helped thousands of fellow travelers on the path to recovery from being indoctrinated into a life of drama and conflict.

What most people don't understand is that...

The real problem isn't other people's behavior.

It's not your past trauma.

It's not even your emotional sensitivity.

It’s victim consciousness – a state of mind where you're unconsciously casting yourself as a victim, which puts you on the Drama Triangle, making it nearly impossible to think, speak, or act without causing harm.

Victim consciousness is a mental state that puts you on the Drama Triangle.

And it creates a magnetic pull that attracts the same painful relationships and keeps you reliving the same wounds.

Most people try to solve this problem by:

None of these approaches create lasting change because they don't address the root cause…

The unconscious patterns keeping you stuck on the Drama Triangle.

You don’t need more coping tools.

You need a framework that transforms your trauma patterns at the source and allows you to use the tools you already have in a better way.

After 30 years of recovery and helping thousands transform their relationship with trauma, I've developed a proven framework called the Sustainable Safety Solution.

Here's my 6-part framework to remove triggers and build unshakable internal safety:

This framework isn't just theory.

It's a practical system that's been refined through three decades of recovery and helping thousands break free from the cycle of drama and conflict.

Experience powerful emotional relief on demand.

These guided EMDR audio tracks walk you through the exact process to calm your nervous system, release stored trauma, and return to a place of peace — even in the middle of a meltdown.

No more wondering what to do next.

These beautifully designed worksheets and step-by-step daily plans help you integrate the core teachings into your life — so you can stay grounded, set boundaries with confidence, and finally feel safe in your own skin.

Imagine waking up without dread. Setting boundaries without guilt. Feeling safe in your body, clear in your communication, and free in your relationships.

That’s not a dream — it’s a decision.

You have two options:

❌ Continue struggling with the same painful patterns, walking on eggshells, and exhausting yourself trying to manage everyone else's emotions.

✅ Learn a proven framework to transform your triggers into healing guides and create sustainable safety from within.

The choice is yours, but only one of those options leads to healing.